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Are you a Midlife Woman wandering in the dark?

Do you feel confused about your life at the moment?

Moreover, are you uncertain about your future?

In addition, are you just living the life others want for you?

Furthermore, do you feel tired, weary, and unfulfilled?

If so, read on…

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Are you a woman wandering in the dark? 

Moreover, are you uncertain about your future?
In addition, are you just living the life others want for you?
Furthermore, do you feel tired, weary, and unfulfilled?

If so, read on…

Most women go through some sort of midlife transition, typically around 45 to 55, where they experience anxiety, stress, and fear about what the future holds.

This phase is often described as the woman’s Midlife Crisis. It happens to most women to some degree. Generally, it is thought to be caused by the start of the Menopause, known as the Peri-Menopause.

Although the perimenopause is an important part of this phase of life, it is not the whole story. At the same time, many other things are changing in a woman’s life during this period, which create confusion, uncertainty, and fear of the future.

However, once you understand what is happening and how to handle it, eventually you wake up to who you really are and a new life can begin.

Ultimately, this is a transformative change, like a Caterpillar becoming a Butterfly.

If you are somewhere in this process, may I welcome you to the Midlife Butterfly Club?

Hello, my name is Jean Macdonald

I am known as the Midlife Midwife because I help midlife women re-invent themselves for the second half of their lives.

With this in mind, I started this Club aiming to give you:

Clarity about what is happening to you.

Confidence that you can take control and change your life as you want to.

And most importantly, Certainty that you know who you really are, where you are going, and that there is a bright future for you on the other side.

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Love Jean x

We call this process Waking the Woman Within!

At first, you may have thought this state of confusion and uncertainty was the beginning of the end of your useful life.

In reality, it is actually the beginning of a brilliant new phase of your life—that is, if you want it to be.

You deserve it.

Introducing the Midlife Butterfly Club Magazine

Primarily, our main way of telling you about the midlife transition is through our Magazine. This magazine features a rolling series of twelve short articles, videos, and links to podcasts of interviews with experts, all of which aim to explain, support, and guide you, as a midlife woman,  through this difficult time.

Below, you will see some articles currently in the magazine. Simply click on any one to read.

Midlife Money The Importance of Financial Literacy

Midlife Money: The Importance of Financial Literacy

From career changes to caregiving, midlife brings financial pressures that demand informed decisions. Financial literacy equips women with the tools to navigate change, plan for retirement, and protect long-term security. It’s time to take charge, break stereotypes, and become the financial role model your family needs.
Joys and Hazards of Midlife Love

Joys and Hazards of Midlife Love

Romantic love may fade, but midlife offers a second chance to build something deeper. Jean Macdonald, the Midlife Midwife, explores how women can navigate intimacy, independence, and new beginnings while staying true to themselves and avoiding common traps in relationships after 40.
Time for some Kidology

Time for some Kidology

Kidology is a clever parenting technique that helps children accept boundaries while fostering independence. By shifting responsibility to external rules, parents can reduce power struggles and guide behaviour gently. Discover how one mum used Kidology to overcome toilet training setbacks—and how you can apply it in daily life.

To see all the articles currently in the Magazine click on the link below

What Our Members Say About Us

LindsayDennison

I am so thankful for the Midlife Butterfly Club. I now know that what I am going through is normal and that there is support out there. It’s nice to talk to other woman who know exactly what I am going through.

RosieNelson

The Midlife Butterfly Club is exactly the support I need while I find myself wondering where I’m going and what the heck I’m here for at the age of 50!! It is very reassuring to be in touch with others who are going through it too.

You, Chiara

The Midlife Butterfly Club  offers us the support and knowledge we need as midlife women.  As a retired teacher,  I know the value of correct knowledge. “Knowledge is Power” was first written in 1668 in the book Leviathan by T. Hobbes.

So, Come back regularly to read the new articles in the Magazine  and we hope you find them helpful.

FAQs

If you feel significant life changes beyond your control—such as shifts in health, relationships, work, or self-confidence—you may be in the midlife transition. It’s a phase of transformation, much like a caterpillar becoming a butterfly.

Midlife transition is a natural shift in priorities and emotions. A crisis occurs when these changes feel overwhelming and unmanageable. Women, however, are resilient and rarely experience a breakdown.

No. While perimenopause can overlap with midlife transition, the emotional and life changes extend beyond hormonal shifts. Menopause is a biological process; midlife transition is about personal growth.

Midlife transition is often misunderstood and mistaken for menopause. Support provides guidance, validation, and connection with others experiencing the same journey.

The club offers information, inspiration, and a community of women who understand your journey. It provides a safe space to share, learn, and grow.

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