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If Good Looks Were Everything

28 April 2025

Midlife women often face self-doubt tied to fading youth, but beauty isn't everything. Rediscovering joy through hobbies, building supportive relationships, and embracing unique qualities can reignite confidence. This empowering phase offers freedom, strength, and the chance to shine beyond outdated beauty standards. You’re more powerful than you think.

Sequins, Style, and a Jolly Good Shake-Up

25 April 2025

Sequins, Style, and a Jolly Good Shake-Up Welcome to The Midlife Butterfly Club—where cardigans fear for their future and beige has officially been banned. This is not your typical midlife magazine. It's a riot of colour, confidence, and good old-fashioned mischief for women who refuse to fade quietly into a…

How important are other people’s opinions to you?

18 April 2025

We all suffer from self-doubt, but midlife women are particularly prone to do so. This is because they think they are losing or have lost the good looks that made them attractive and confident when they were younger. This self-doubt particularly afflicts women who have lost their previous partner...

Easter Reflections for Midlife Women

17 April 2025

Easter Sunday Reflections for Midlife Women explore renewal, balance, joy, and spiritual growth during this meaningful season. Whether you celebrate Easter religiously, spiritually, or as a cultural tradition, the themes of resurrection and new beginnings are impossible to miss. The flowers begin to bloom. The days stretch longer. And within…

What is Trauma all about?

16 April 2025

The words trauma and traumatic are often misused, diluting their true meaning. Real trauma leaves lasting emotional wounds and can cause serious conditions like PTSD. Even forgotten childhood experiences can affect adult health.

Shamed for what she wore! Part 2

14 April 2025

Annie Den Haan reflects on how early experiences of shame influenced her self-image and fashion choices. A visit to Florence and the purchase of a white trench coat marked the beginning of her journey toward embracing her true style and identity...

How to Improve Your Relationship with Yourself

9 April 2025

Midlife is a transformative phase where many women reassess their lives. It's a time to rediscover oneself, embrace change, and pursue personal growth. By focusing on self-awareness and setting new goals, women can navigate this period with confidence and purpose.

Shamed for What She Wore! Part 1

7 April 2025

In Part Two, Annie Den Haan reflects on how being shamed for her clothes shaped her identity. A white trench coat bought in Florence becomes a symbol of reclaiming confidence, marking a turning point in her journey from self-doubt toward freedom of self-expression and personal authenticity.

Nancy Astor: A Trailblazer in a Turbulent Era 1879 – 1964

4 April 2025

Discover the remarkable journey of Nancy Astor: A Trailblazer in a Turbulent Era 1879 – 1964, the first woman to sit in the British Parliament, who challenged sexism and led groundbreaking social reform.

How intelligent do you think you are?

4 April 2025

Many believe intelligence is fixed, but research shows it develops over time. Traditional education often ignores talents beyond academics, leaving many feeling inadequate. The Butterfly Club helps individuals discover and grow their unique intelligences, including financial and emotional intelligence.

Who’s looking after you?

2 April 2025

Who’s looking after you when life feels overwhelming? As a mid-aged woman juggling work, family, and obligations, stress can take a toll. Learn how to set boundaries, reclaim balance, and prioritize self-care. Small changes can make a big difference—because your well-being matters.

Wear What We Tell You to Wear

30 March 2025

Fashion is more than clothing—it’s communication. The 2024 trend is Quiet Luxury & Old Money Aesthetic, favoring timeless, elegant fashion over fast trends. Whether you embrace it or resist, fashion shapes identity. Step into confidence, redefine your style, and dress for the life you want. Wear what we tell you to wear.

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