What have we got for you?

Hello,

Thank you for your interest in our Midlife Butterfly Club.

You probably have lots of questions about what we do and more important what can we do for you?

The most common questions are likely to be:

Am I a Midlife Woman?
How would I know if I am a Midlife Woman?
Is it a good or bad thing to be a Midlife Woman?

Maybe you are even asking a deeper question like:
Is accepting that one is a Midlife Woman the end of something or the beginning of something?

The answer to that deeper question is –
It is both.
It is the end of being a Young Woman, where your life follows a predictable pattern, and the beginning of being a Free Woman, where you can create the life you want.

There are many other questions that will come up and we have created a little document for you called Frequently Asked Questions about being a Midlife Woman.

You can get a download copy of it at no cost by clicking on this link.

Love Jean Macdonald – The Midlife Midwife

PS We also have the Midlife Butterfly Club which provides ongoing support to midlife women through its online Magazine which has articles, videos and audio tracks which you can download to listen to on your phone.

Membership of the Butterfly Club normally costs £19-95 per month. However, we want to get this valuable information out to as many women as possible. So we are giving a MONTH’S FREE TRIAL MEMBERSHIP UNTIL AFTER CHRISTMAS.

You can cancel at the end of the month. If you like what you see and experience in the Butterfly Club you can stay on after your free period at the substantially reduced subscription of £9 per month. You are free to cancel at any time.

So click this link to join using PayPal. https://midlifebutterflyclub.org/#membership

You do not have to have a PayPal account to join, and you will see that no money will be taken from your account.

I look forward to welcoming you to the Butterfly Club.

Love Jean Macdonald – Chief Butterfly

PS To hear what we have coming up for you in the Twelve Days, watch my video below.

Latest Resources

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Gonna Be An Engineer – Peggy Seeger

1 February 2026

Peggy Seeger’s “Gonna Be An Engineer” celebrates the resilience of midlife women who defy outdated roles. Her lyrics challenge gender norms and echo the frustration, strength, and determination of women reclaiming their voices, proving it’s never too late to pursue dreams or demand equality.

Don’t worry about Debt!

29 January 2026

Worrying about debt drains energy and rarely solves anything. This post explores practical, empowering steps to ease the burden—like drawing up a plan, seeking impartial help, or considering formal solutions such as IVAs. The key? Take action and stop letting debt control your mind and health.

What’s Wrong with the Missionary Position?

24 January 2026

The missionary position may be familiar, but familiarity doesn’t always equal fulfilment. This piece explores how predictable sexual scripts, cultural conditioning, and emotional disconnect contribute to low desire, reframing “low libido” as a pleasure and connection issue rather than a medical one.

How Family and Friends Can Hold You Back

22 January 2026

In this Friends and Family episode from Six Steps for Midlife Women to Take Back Control of Your Life, we explore how family members and long-standing friendships can unintentionally hold midlife women back. Through a discussion with Melanie Hill, we unpack toxic dynamics, emotional blackmail disguised as love, and the powerful question at the heart of it all: whose values are you choosing to live by — theirs or yours?

Early to Bed

19 January 2026

Prioritizing sleep is essential for midlife women managing hormonal changes and stress. Quality rest boosts energy, mood, and health while easing menopause symptoms. Simple strategies like accountability check-ins, a calming routine, and a consistent schedule improve sleep. Ready to wake up refreshed? Small changes make a big impact—start your sleep journey today!

If Good Looks Were Everything

18 January 2026

Midlife women often face self-doubt tied to fading youth, but beauty isn't everything. Rediscovering joy through hobbies, building supportive relationships, and embracing unique qualities can reignite confidence. This empowering phase offers freedom, strength, and the chance to shine beyond outdated beauty standards. You’re more powerful than you think.

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