Midlife Butterfly Club

What is ‘Tough Love’ for our children?

15 May 2026

Tough love means guiding our children with both care and discipline, preparing them for life’s challenges. Like animals in nature, parents must balance comfort with lessons in independence. True love isn’t about endless ease—it’s about equipping our children to become resilient, responsible, and capable adults.

Writing for Beginners

13 May 2026

Jean Macdonald

Free Article

Writing can often seem daunting, especially for beginners, but Sue Williams, known as the "Author…

At Seventeen – Janis Ian

10 May 2026

Jean Macdonald

Free Article

At Seventeen by Janis Ian continues to resonate with midlife women, offering a heartfelt reflection on insecurity, self-worth, and acceptance. While written about youth, the song now speaks to the wisdom gained through experience. It reminds women that true beauty and confidence grow..

They Say I’m Different – Betty Davis

3 May 2026

Jean Macdonald

Free Article

Betty Davis’s They Say I’m Different is a fearless anthem that still empowers midlife women today. Released in 1974, it celebrates bold individuality and challenges conformity. For women reclaiming their identity in midlife, Davis’s unapologetic message offers inspiration to live authentically..

Childhood Care and Romantic Relationships

24 April 2026

Jean Macdonald

Free Article

Early childhood care shapes how we love as adults. Attachment styles—anxious, avoidant, or secure—often mirror our first relationships with caregivers. This series by Heather Garbutt explores how to recognise and shift unhealthy patterns, empowering you to build the love life you truly deserve, no matter your past.

How do you feel about You?

22 April 2026

Jean Macdonald

Magazine Articles

How you feel about yourself affects every part of your life. If self-worth is low, identifying the factors behind it—like unrealistic expectations or past experiences—can help. By recognising these influences and prioritising self-care, you can begin to rebuild a stronger, more positive relationship with yourself.

The Rise of the Midlife Woman

17 April 2026

Jean Macdonald

Free Article

Discover why the midlife woman is an idea whose time has come. In this inspiring talk, Jean Macdonald shares how midlife brings new challenges, but also powerful opportunities for reinvention, confidence, and purpose. Watch the video to explore how this stage can transform your life.