These pages are for women who recognise that their life is changing and becoming more confusing and with fewer certainties about the future.
We call this the Midlife Transition and we want to inform and support women going through this stage of their life to get through it as painlessly as possible, although it will never be easy.
The midlife transition should lead to a happy outcome where you know yourself better and know where you are going. However it possible to get lost or stuck without the right support and guidance.
The aim of the Members Area is to provide that support guidance. The first step is to educate yourself about what is going on for you.
We have identified six areas that may hold you back from developing the kind of lifestyle and lovestyle which would really suit you.
Each of these areas has to be examined to find out how it is affecting you and what needs to be done to get it more under your control.
Unfortunately, these areas overlap and become entangled so you have to deal with whatever issues are most affecting you afflicting you at that particular time.
You will see these six areas illustrated in the drawing you will see here.
Further down this page you will see an introduction to each of the six areas with a brief explanation about what each is about.
After that we have a little test for you to find which are the areas where you may may need guidance.
Find out more about these six areas
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